While growing up, it has been a customary for us to ask the adults first before we make an action. I do understand that I also have my own flaws on this one, however, there has to be a time when we need to take a stand and just do what is right.
I guess when I conveyed my message I was too much of a foreigner, my words weren’t properly understood.
My question is this; in what part of parental discipline does asking another’s parent for permission is too foreign that they make a deal with children?
How hard would telling the child “ask your mom first if she agrees?” than assume too much. These children doesn’t have the say, especially if there’s a long travel involved.



